Caring for a Spouse
Caring for a Spouse : Advice, tips and support for family caregivers who are providing long term care for a spouse. Connect with, share, and learn from the tips and strategies of other experienced family caregivers who are coping with caring for an ill or elderly spouse.
Spouse Articles
My Wife’s Alzheimer's Transformed Our 40-Year Marriage
When my wife was diagnosed with Alzheimer's, we thought our life, as we knew it, was over. But we've encountered some unexpected blessings along the way.
4 CommentsCaregiving's Toll on Marriage: A Personal Story
Taking care of a husband with cancer while raising three kids younger than ten was a future I never expected when we first said "I do."
7 Comments4 Steps for Successful Long-Term Care Planning With a Spouse
As a couple, facing the financial and emotional requirements of long-term care is a challenge. Here are the four steps to successful long-term care planning with a spouse.
1 CommentSpousal Impoverishment: Medicaid Spend-Down Rules for Married Couples
Medicaid spend-down rules for married couples are different, depending on where each spouse lives. When one still lives at home, known as the “community spouse,” they can often keep more assets and income to avoid what is called spousal impoverishment.
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Spouse Questions
My wife's health and mine are declining. We are 82 YO. We need to move, but my wife won't consider a smaller house.
10 AnswersArtistDaughter Answered 13 hours agoI am not a caregiver anymore as my husband died. Am I still allowed to be on this site to ask questions for myself? I am 82.
4 AnswersSlartibartfast Answered 16 hours agoMy husband doesn’t remember living in our home since his stroke. Keeps asking when we’re going home. He didn’t have Alzheimer’s pre-stroke.
11 AnswersMonicaj0421 Replied Apr 24, 2026I would like a regular penpal. Is anyone wanting a way to talk to a new friend? Especially if you are a caregiving spouse?
5 Answerslkdrymom Answered Apr 22, 2026
Spouse Discussions
How do Alzheimer's patients really feel? My husband keeps asking me to 'please help him.' I feel so bad that I can’t change anything.
3 CommentsGeaton777 Commented Apr 26, 2026I am the caregiver for my spouse. I am healthy and had lots of plans for my retirement. I have become resentful. How to handle this?
36 CommentsBellerose63 Commented Mar 11, 2026I just need a place to vent. Temporary feeling, but I need to scream. Husband is diagnosed with severe dementia, but functional. Arggh
9 CommentsJustAnon Commented Jan 16, 2026Diagnosis: Feeling so lonely as my wife's caregiver.
12 Commentsgolden23 Commented Nov 28, 2025
Spouse Related Topics
- Alzheimer's & Dementia
- Dementia Behaviors
- Cognitive Decline
- Memory Loss
- Violent Behavior
- Cancer
- Signs of Dementia
- Early Onset Alzheimer's
- Mild Dementia
- Lewy Body Dementia
- Sundowner's Syndrome
- Adult Day Care
- Dementia Wandering
- Moderate Dementia
- Severe Dementia
- Home Modification
- Area Agency on Aging
- Aging in Place
- Chemotherapy
- Prostate Cancer


