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She also has Macular Degeneration, and they would like to drain the blood, but she has little patience to sit still. Sedation is unlikely because of her age. I would like to think that she can live a comfortable life with diminishing sight but would like to know what others think. There is no pain and I give the drops as often as she cooperates.

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Honestly I would not bother having it treated.
At some point there is a choice to make "Burden VS Benefit"
If it would stress her out having a procedure done, don't do it
Any sedation can cause long term problems when it comes to a faster decline. You make the choice that you feel she would make her self or make the one that you think is in her best interest.
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You can't force her.


Sedation would likely be as minimal as possible, due to her age and lack of cooperation. I have MANY friends who've had eye surgery and no one said it was 'horrible'.

At 91, you really have to pick your battles. If she's fighting you on simple eyedrops, there's nothing much else you can do.
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Her site will diminish but there is little way to know if she will face blindness before she dies of natural causes. There is little you can do in this instance, and whatever can be done will come through her doctor's suggestions for her case. I am so sorry.
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I’ve had no experience with glaucoma, and it sounds as though this is what the surgery is for. I’d check first whether both eyes are affected by both problems, about the type of macula, and the prognosis for sight. If she will lose her sight in both eyes anyway in a year or so, the surgery might not be worth it, even if it is likely to be successful.

Find out what sort of macula degeneration. The macula is an organ at the back of the eyeball connecting to the brain. Degeneration causes a blank spot in the middle of vision. Aged related degeneration is not treatable yet. A ‘wet macula’ is now treatable, and my husband has one. It’s caused by leaking blood at the back of the eyeball, and it sounds as though this has been diagnosed.

Wet macula treatment is not simple. DH has had an injection through the eyeball every 3 months for 2 years now. The anesthetic drops put in before the injection sting badly, the injection itself is sometimes painful depending on whether the anesthetic worked well, then quite uncomfortable when it wears off. It takes him a couple of days to come better. The treatment is actually working well, and he is only 70. He is delighted with the result and tolerates repeated treatments well, but your aunt may not. It would be a good idea to find out about this before deciding about surgery. Your aunt may want to make the choice herself. Sympathy to you all, it's difficult.
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MargaretMcKen Jan 2023
Whoops, I forgot his last birthday, he's 71. I really understand this because go and sit with him through every treatment, and of course have to drive him home from the hospital eye clinic.
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Let's not forget that sometimes eye drops can sting, thus someone older or even a child may not fully understand. Thus the refusal to use them.
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Are you talking about the laser surgery that takes less than 5 minutes and controls pressure (selective laser trabeculoplasty) or something else? I think I would ask about the possibility of using some type of calming medication or twilight sedation if it is SLT because the benefits can be amazing and are long lasting. Loss of vision and hearing accelerate dementia and greatly impact quality of life, and although she is a great age many elders are living beyond their 90's.
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bluebell19 Jan 2023
Dang, I just had SLT and it didn't do anything. I'm so disappointed. Just know it doesn't help everyone.
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My Uncle gets shots for his Macular degeneration.

Eye drops are a lifetime thing. If surgery is not going to stop the eye drops not sure if I would put her thru it. If she does not use the eye drops for the glaucoma she will go blind. My GF suffered from headaches.
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I’m assuming she is mentally impaired or you wouldn’t have this problem. Blindness will make her more so, and more “distant” psychologically.

Give her a “treat” as you would a small child after eye drops. Create a positive association. Hershey’s kiss, a small cookie, a dum dum lollipop. What brings a smile to her face?

The treat does not have to be food related, but keep it the same every time so thinking of the experience triggers a positive reaction in her.

Examples, gentle hand or foot massage, a TV program or soothing music.

instead of saying “here are your glaucoma-preventing eye drops” call it “gentle refreshing soother.”

She may have grown to like this control “game” of being a bit naughty and refusing. Let her play the same game with something else.
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My mother had the surgery for glaucoma and for her it stopped the eye drops for one eye but she has to do it for the other eye and my mother is 87yrs old. She goes back in Feb to see if she can stop the other eye drop. She is down from 2 different medications to one and only at night. The pressure builds up and it can have consquences.

Prayers you find the right solution
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Has doctor advised against sedation? Age alone does not prevent sedation. If overall health permits, sedation may be tolerated without terrible after effects.
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KaleyBug Jan 2023
Agree my MIL had hip replacement surgery at 96. Did fine and walked again without a walker
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