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You raise the head of the bed. Also raise the foot of the bed so they do not slide to the bottom of the bed. Very easy if there is a Hospital bed. When a person is at this stage the food that is generally eaten is pureed and if necessary thickened so that will prevent or at least minimize aspiration. If you notice the food is not going down well you stop and try to clear the mouth with swabs NEVER your fingers. You can also place the person on their side if they begin to choke or cough. This will help keep the airway clear. Small amounts of food over a long period of time. If you have Hospice they will help you get used to this type of process.
Thanks for the info. She is on Hospice and the MC staff feed her. I have stopped, because, I'm afraid to. I don't want to feed her and then her start choking or coughing. I think I'll just leave it up to them from now on.
The staff tells me that she still has good appetite......it's just...I don't know. I'm not sure how. It's so disconcerting.
It is difficult to see someone not eating the way they used to. "WE" are conditioned with food. You have a cold or the flu..Eat this, it will make you feel better. You are sad, you eat ice cream or a cookie, it makes you feel better. You have a birthday, anniversary and most of the time you are asked where do you want to go eat, what kind of cake do you want. You love someone you make their favorite food, So in our minds LOVE=FOOD, Nurturing=food, happiness=food. So when our loved ones stop eating it is hard to accept. We can not grasp the idea that the body no longer needs food. And the thought that giving someone food could actually do harm is a difficult one to fully understand. Just hold your mom's hand, tell her you love her and just be there for her. ((hugs)) for both of you.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
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If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
When a person is at this stage the food that is generally eaten is pureed and if necessary thickened so that will prevent or at least minimize aspiration.
If you notice the food is not going down well you stop and try to clear the mouth with swabs NEVER your fingers.
You can also place the person on their side if they begin to choke or cough. This will help keep the airway clear.
Small amounts of food over a long period of time.
If you have Hospice they will help you get used to this type of process.
The staff tells me that she still has good appetite......it's just...I don't know. I'm not sure how. It's so disconcerting.
"WE" are conditioned with food. You have a cold or the flu..Eat this, it will make you feel better. You are sad, you eat ice cream or a cookie, it makes you feel better. You have a birthday, anniversary and most of the time you are asked where do you want to go eat, what kind of cake do you want. You love someone you make their favorite food, So in our minds LOVE=FOOD, Nurturing=food, happiness=food.
So when our loved ones stop eating it is hard to accept. We can not grasp the idea that the body no longer needs food. And the thought that giving someone food could actually do harm is a difficult one to fully understand.
Just hold your mom's hand, tell her you love her and just be there for her.
((hugs)) for both of you.