My husband has dementia, for the last 3 days he hasn't had an appetite, he has eaten very little, he is not wanting to get a shower or undress, he is saying I'm hurting him when I'm not at all, he has gotten worse in just 3 days, from what I've read he seems to be in the 6th stage.
Have you called his doctor and asked for advice? His doctor would be the logical person to ask for a hospice evaluation, yes?
If they feel it's not the right time, they will tell you, and perha[s palliative care mau be a good solutions.
Trust them, Get DNR in order, etc